Tim Stevens, J. Mike Blake, Clay Best, Aaron Moody, and Elliiott Warnock follow all the news for high school athletes from Wake, Orange, Durham, Chatham and Johnston Counties.
Eli Garner of Cedar Ridge, who led the area in boys soccer scoring in 2007, scored seven goals in an 11-0 victory over South Granville Tuesday in the Oxford Webb tournament.
Eli Garner is the best soccer player I know. He could start as a college freshman right now if he wanted to and all of you are just jealous because you don't have that much skill at anything.
In sport, as in most of life, players and teams usually get what they deserve. In fact, taken at face value, the intent of competitive sports that keep score is to quantify worth in a particular activity. If a player or parent doesn't want a real result they should probably just sit around the camp fire and sing "Kumbaya" with like-minded folk.
Eli's performance was the result of 9 shots taken in about 40 minutes of playing time. Limiting his playing time to less than half the game because the opponent was under-prepared would have been unfair to a young man who lives to play this game. There was no intent to embarrass the opponent, only to play a beloved game. Many things have to be considered in managing a game that turns out to be a mismatch. Not completely without merit is a player's right to participate in an activity he loves.
When a basketball player scores 40 points in a game, he is rarely criticized for excess.
When a boxer beats his opponent into submission we never hear "Stop hitting so hard! You're too far ahead!"
The truly appropriate, productive message is that harder, smarter preparation is the fix for the mismatch, rather than an overly minimalized performance by a well prepared participant. This message empowers the lesser player and helps keep his dignity intact. Constructing an artificial contest is demeaning to all and fools no one but those who naturally gravitate to foolishness.
If someone's feelings got hurt, maybe it will provide the impetus for a defender to work harder and improve before the next encounter.
I'm sure Eli has been embarrassed plenty of times in his career and will be again. In fact, that embarrassment has ultimately been his best friend because it has driven him to outwork the guys who were sheltered and overprotected.
Tim has covered high school sports for more than 40 years. He is the only active newspaper reporter in the National High School Sports Hall of Fame and is a member of the N.C. High School Athletic Association Hall of Fame. He was the co-author of the original NCHSAA record book. When he not writing about boys and girls, he often is at church or in a theater. Email Tim.
Comments
Eli Garner is the best
Mon, 09/15/2008 - 21:37 — Anonymous (not verified)Eli Garner is the best soccer player I know. He could start as a college freshman right now if he wanted to and all of you are just jealous because you don't have that much skill at anything.
In sport, as in most of
Mon, 08/25/2008 - 03:40 — Anonymous (not verified)In sport, as in most of life, players and teams usually get what they deserve. In fact, taken at face value, the intent of competitive sports that keep score is to quantify worth in a particular activity. If a player or parent doesn't want a real result they should probably just sit around the camp fire and sing "Kumbaya" with like-minded folk.
Eli's performance was the result of 9 shots taken in about 40 minutes of playing time. Limiting his playing time to less than half the game because the opponent was under-prepared would have been unfair to a young man who lives to play this game. There was no intent to embarrass the opponent, only to play a beloved game. Many things have to be considered in managing a game that turns out to be a mismatch. Not completely without merit is a player's right to participate in an activity he loves.
When a basketball player scores 40 points in a game, he is rarely criticized for excess.
When a boxer beats his opponent into submission we never hear "Stop hitting so hard! You're too far ahead!"
The truly appropriate, productive message is that harder, smarter preparation is the fix for the mismatch, rather than an overly minimalized performance by a well prepared participant. This message empowers the lesser player and helps keep his dignity intact. Constructing an artificial contest is demeaning to all and fools no one but those who naturally gravitate to foolishness.
If someone's feelings got hurt, maybe it will provide the impetus for a defender to work harder and improve before the next encounter.
I'm sure Eli has been embarrassed plenty of times in his career and will be again. In fact, that embarrassment has ultimately been his best friend because it has driven him to outwork the guys who were sheltered and overprotected.
It was against South
Fri, 08/22/2008 - 13:10 — Anonymous (not verified)It was against South Granville, not Southern Vance. Great reporting guys!
Nice job, Coach
Thu, 08/21/2008 - 17:41 — Anonymous (not verified)Real class act for the coach to keep his starter in long enough to rack up 7 goals. Can't much blame Eli, but adults should know better !!!
Hope your team gets blown out when they finally face some competition, Coach...
nice job Eli. Nothing like
Wed, 08/20/2008 - 10:37 — Anonymous (not verified)nice job Eli. Nothing like padding your record against an obviously mismatched team. Mad props.